FORGIVENESS

So, the Sacrament of Reconciliation makes right our sins against God and others. But, what about those sins perpetrated against us?

To whom much is given, much is expected. ~ Luke 12:48 ~

When we walk out of the confessional basking in the glow of healing and renewal, we MUST pass the forgiveness on...for the other...but, more importantly for ourself.

In our society, forgiveness is often seen as weakness. People who forgive those who have hurt them or their family are made to look as if they really don't care about their loved ones. But forgiveness is tremendous strength. It is the action of someone who refuses to be consumed by hatred and revenge. ~ Helen Prejean, csj ~

And, by ridding ourselves of hatred and revenge, we also rid ourselves of stress and anxiety. We stop dwelling on the particulars of the offense, we avoid becoming consumed by the desire to punish the other and, we find peace...happiness...emotional and spiritual healing.

Forgiving the other means we take away the power we have given that person over our life. Forgiveness allows us to stand up straight and strong, and to loudly proclaim:


"I will be a victim no longer!"


So, what is YOUR decision?


Will YOU continue on in weakness?


Will YOU allow pride...hatred...revenge to ruin YOUR life?


Or...


Do YOU have the strength it takes to forgive and live free...

to evict that person or circumstance YOU allow...

to live rent-free in YOUR psyche?


For more on grudges, bitterness, and forgiveness go to:

FORGIVENESS: HOW TO LET GO OF GRUDGES AND BITTERNESS ~ MAYOCLINIC.COM ~